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The Best Essential Oils for Sleep and Relaxation

9 of the Best Essential Oils for Sleep and Relaxation – learn how to use them, why they work and get 4 epic diffuser blends that will help you get the sleep your body needs so you can wake up feeling rested, refreshed, and ready to tackle the day ahead!

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My Favorite Essential Oils for Sleep 

I don’t know about you. But the older I get the harder it is for me to fall asleep and then stay asleep. Staying asleep is the tricky part, part of that is the trials of motherhood for sure. As a mom, you just get use to waking up in the middle of the night whether it’s for feedings, bad dreams or whatever. But now that my kids are sleeping through the night, so should I! 

One of the key things that has helped me on my journey of “getting my sleep back” is essential oils. It may sound “granola” but trust me, essentially oils have changed me. I’ve taken Magnesium, Melatonin and nothing has helped. In fact, sure, those supplements help me fall asleep faster but they actually wake me up in the middle of the night more frequently. Oils don’t do that! For a more in depth dive into essential oils check out my Guide on How to Use Essential Oils.

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How Scents Affect the Body and Mind

The sense of “smell” is one of the greatest senses we have. Smells can have an impact on almost everything, from dreams and emotions, driving, stress and anxiety, to pain, concentration, memory and romance. It can triggers memories or even guide us to certain things like what we want to have for dinner that night. 

Scent has a huge effect on our mind and body. 

A whiff of lavender releases feel-good emotions, the scent of roses lowers our blood pressure, a hint of eucalyptus improves alertness and peppermint creates more focus and oxygenizes our blood cells. 

So, can you use certain scents to help you fall asleep faster and keep you asleep? Yes, absolutely!

How Essential Oils Can Help You Sleep

There are multiple essential oils that can help you relax, mentally and physically and can even help you sleep better. If you’ve every walked down the essential oils section at your local grocery store or natural foods store you’ve probably been overwhelmed and just grabbed the lavender because that’s what you know! (let’s be real) 

On my path to recapturing sleep, I have gone through quite a few essentials oils and have been able to narrow it down to a few. The best part about using essential oils for sleep is they are inexpensive and easy to introduce to a daily and nightly routine. Plus, no medications or expensive supplements.

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9 of the Best Essential Oils for Sleep

Today, I thought I’d share with you the essential oils I recommend to help improve your sleep and find relaxation throughout your body. 

  • Lavender – Lavender’s freshly floral scent will give you a worry-free outlook and let your mind rest. Lavender is probably one of the most studied essential oils. It is known as soothing scent that’s long been associated with relaxation and sleep, and used as a natural remedy for anxiety. 
  • Peace & Calming –  Hands down if you’re going to buy an oil specifically for sleep THIS IS IT! This oil has single handedly altered my sleep patterns for the better. I won’t be caught without it! Peace & Calming is a gentle, sweet blend of Blue Tansy, Orange, Tangerine, Patchouli, and Ylang Ylang. With a calming, sweet aroma, this blend is one you’ll love using during your children’s bedtime and for yourself after the house has settled down. 
  • Valor –  A truly unique blend of Black Spruce, Blue Tansy, Camphor Wood, Geranium, and Frankincense. Valor has a woodsy, grounding aroma. Use it to start each morning with a positive attitude or to refocus at the end of a challenging day.
  • Frankincense – Frankincense essential oil is one of my favorite mulit-use oils. From enhancing spiritual and meditative practice to use in beauty routines. Frankincense has an earthy, uplifting aroma that’s perfect for grounding, spiritual connectedness, stress relief and calming. It’s a great oil to use at night to wind down.
  • Valerian/Rose/Geranium – While Valerian Oil is superb for sleeping, it is a very stinky oil. So instead of Valerian a great substitute is Rose Oil or Geranium. These two essential oils have similar floral scents, and both have been shown to reduce stress and anxiety, on their own and in comvbination with other essential oils. 
  • Sandlewood or Cedarwood – Both of these oils have a rich, woody, earthy scent with a history of use for relaxation and anxiety relief.  They reduce wakefulness and increases amounts of non-REM sleep, leaving you feeling rested. However, oils can definitely effective people differently. Sandalwood and Cedarwood have also been show to increase wakefulness and alertness.I
  • Tranquil – This is actually a blend of a few of the oils I’ve recommended here. Tranquil is a combination of comforting aroma like Cedarwood, Lavender, and Roman Chamomile into a blend that is perfect for inviting relaxation into your life or winding down after a long day.
  • Roman Chamomile – This essential oil has a sweet, herbaceous aroma with notes of bright apple. Its warmth and gentle smell can help create a relaxing and calming atmosphere that can make a wonderful addition to children’s nurseries or play areas and help aid with a restful nights sleep.
  • Sleepylze – I’ve used this one on both my kids and if I ever run out of Peace & Calming this is a close second! Sleepylze has a peaceful carefully blended aroma with a variety of calming, quieting oils that promote an atmosphere conducive to a calm, restful sleep. 

peace and calming oil surrounded by flowers

How to Use Essential Oils for Sleep

Now that you’re armed with the best essential oils for sleep, how do you use them? Here are some simple ways to maximize the effect these essential oils can have on your body and I how I like to use them for a more restful sleep.

  1. Use a diffuser. This is one of the most common practical uses of oils. Add 1/2 cup of water to your diffuser along with 3-4 drops of your favorite oil. This diffuses the smell into your room and allows you to smell it all evening for a restful sleep. I love the dessert mist diffuser from Young Living.
  2. Apply Topically to your Body. This is my preferred method to use essential oils, specifically at night. I like to apply oils to either on my wrists and rub together, behind my ears. or my neck. Please Note: Essential oils in undiluted form are highly concentrated and intense. They can, for some people, cause irritation to the skin. DO NOT APPLY undiluted essential oil to your skin. If you’re planning to use essential oils topically, be sure you’re using an already diluted oil—a mixture of the fragrant essential oil of your choice and a carrier oil. Here’s the carrier I use and the roller ball bottle I use to easily apply.
  3. Create a pillow mist. Another great option is to create a pillow mist. In a spray bottle, combine 1/2 cup of water with 4-5 drops of essential oil. Spray around your room, or give a light mist to your pillow or sheets. 
  4. Add Oils to a BathPour a few drops along with Epsom salt in your bath before bedtime. 

Top 4 Essential Oil Diffuser Blends for Sleep

Even though I prefer to use oils topically especially at bedtime. Diffuser Blends are another great way to use oils for sleep as well. I use the diffuser for my kids every single night without fail! These are my favorite bedtime essential oil diffuser blends that are perfect for sleep!

  1. Calm Down: Combine 1/2 cup of water with 2 drops of lavender, 1 drop of valor and 1 drop of citrus fresh. Add to a diffuser.
  2. Refreshing Sleep: To a diffuser add 1/2 cup of water 2 drops of lavender, 1 drop of eucalyptus and 1 drop of citrus fresh (or any citrus oil like orange, tangerine or grapefruit).
  3. Blissful: Combine 1/2 cup of water with 2 drops of lavender and 2 drops of valor. Add to a diffuser.
  4. Peaceful Rest: Add 1/2 cup of water with 2 drops of peace & calming and 2 drops of frankincense to a diffuser.

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pinterest collage for best essential oils for sleep